Brandon Glenn
Director of Youth Ministries
Be a Friend
David and Jonathan came from two entirely different backgrounds. Jonathan was King Saul’s son, and David was a shepherd boy. However, the two of them became “one in spirit” (1 Samuel 17:57). When Saul wanted to kill David, Jonathan gave David warning and protected him. To put it simply, the two men were best friends.
Selfishly, we find ourselves asking how we can find a friend like Jonathan. Instead of asking where can find a friend like Jonathan, we should ask, how can I be a friend like Jonathan. Here are some ways we can be a faithful friend like Jonathan:
- Be true. Jonathan’s life was at stake because of his loyalty to David. You may not have to risk your life for a friendship, but maybe your reputation or something else.
- Love your friend as yourself. Jesus tells his followers to love your neighbor as yourself (Matthew 22:39). An explanation in loving oneself is not necessary; it is natural.
- Help a friend find strength in God. Love can push us to better places. Be the friend that pushes the other closer to God, especially in trying circumstances.
During this Pandemic, we need friends. Hey, we need friends all the time! We need friends that will be true and faithful to us, even when we might mess up. We need friends that will love us selflessly. And we need friends that will point us to God, especially when we are in a tough situation. Ask yourself how you can be Jonathan today.